Session 1
Julie and I teamed up to talk about what Guys desire from Girls and what Girls desire in guys.
So here are the basics about the two sides
Julie - Informed the Girls how much Guys need and desire respect over love. She did a illustration were she asked the students to raise there hands to which question best fits them.
Question
Would you rather feel alone and unloved or feel disrespected and inadequate?
Most guys would tell you that they would feel alone and unloved.
Most girls would tell you that they would rather feel disrespected and inadequate.
This was true with our crew. Majority of the guys would rather feel alone and unloved than fell disrespected and inadequate. We went on to talk about how guys can be disrespected and the need to have the approval of the girl he cares about. The guys need to be thoughtful, have a sense of humor, self-confident, good conversationalist with them and others. A girl needs to feel loved and she will feel loved if we guys will develop these qualities in life. Guys feel respected when girls trust them, believe in them, and encourage them.
Session 2
Communication
Nick and Laurie
Went through the history of boys and girls. How boys and girls played growing up and what they played with. They talked about the different ways that guys and girls communicate and the need for guys to be good listeners and not always trying to be problem solvers. We talked about the way girls talk to guys and how certain approaches can make upset a guy or encourage the guys. The goal is always to be encouraging.
Session 3
Qualities that God wants us to develop. We talked about the fruit of the Spirit. Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-control. We need to develop these qualities because of the need to walk with God, when we walk with God these qualities will develop as we continue to walk in the spirit.
A great time with the students.
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